Brigitte Bardot's son: biography, relationship with his mother, photos
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It's no secret that there are some people who would rather leave their entire inheritance "to my favourite doggy."than your relatives. And they will be more concerned about this dog than about their own children. They are more likely to take a walk in the park with it than with their own son... The French film legend belongs to such people, too Brigitte Bardot. All her life she has loved films and animals, but her own child she called "tumour"and I've been trying to get rid of him.
What is it: narcissism, refusal of responsibility, love of freedom? One way or another, and with her cold attitude, the actress forever destroyed the relationship with her son, who was not loved by his mother ...
A new phase that the hottie wasn't ready for.
Brigitte Bardot is considered one of the most beautiful women in the history of world cinema! When she was young, she had many admirers, but it so happened that she tied herself to the Jacques Charrier. The love was there, but not so strong that Brigitte dared to devote herself entirely to her family. And so when she found out that pregnant - The 25-year-old actress decided that it was necessary to get rid of the child by any means necessary. Abortion was forbidden in France, and even the diva's star status did not help her to bribe doctors. Subsequently, Bardot admitted that she made all sorts of independent attempts, but none were successful. And then came the late deadline. It remained only to wait for the birth of an heir ...
By then, Brigitte depressed: Jacques was serious about having a child and therefore forbade his favourite to take pictures and dye her hair, a luxury that Bardot herself never allowed herself. The beauty became fat. She refused to leave the house, so that God forbid she did not catch the paparazzi - in such a "deplorable" state. It would be a cruel blow to her reputation as an impeccable seductress ... She went out only in full outfit: dark wigs, discreet clothes ... In her diary she will write:
"I couldn't live like that - I just didn't want to. I wanted only one thing: to be free. I wanted to be free as before, in every sense of the word... But I felt that I no longer belonged to myself: I was a hostage to Jacques, a prisoner of my own body and status, a hostage to this child..."
With each passing month, Bardot's mental state deteriorated: she was nervous and depressed, openly telling Jacques that she did not love and did not want this child. Of course, the relationship between the lovers deterioratedWhen the baby was finally born, the actors' home was overrun with photographers. Brigitte had no desire to talk to the press, so she asked a family friend to take pictures with her newborn heir, just so the journalists would leave her alone.
In public, Brigitte has always tried to show off her son, who was given a beautiful name Nicolasand love and maternal warmth. Apparently, acting was part of her real life. Alas, but outside the cameras she was a cold mother who cared only about her career and appearance, and not about the offences of the child who lacked her attention. After giving birth, Brigitte refused even to feed her son - she wouldn't sacrifice her beautiful body! And many years later, her memoirs would be published, in which she confessed:
"He's a tumour. That's how I saw my child. It was a tumour that I was forced to carry in my body, unable to fix anything..."
Free again
For a while Jacques continued to believe (or, well, wanted to believe) that Brigitte was after all the maternal instinct will kick in. But the years passed, and the mother's attitude to her son did not change. In the end, the actress became infatuated with a new man, a sultry brunet Sami Freyem. This put an end to their union with Jacques, as well as on the "pseudo-care" Bardot about his son - in court, the mother refused to give up the child, arguing that she herself needs care, and is not ready to give it to someone else. Now she was free again...
From time to time, Brigitte visited her son, and even made attempts to build a relationship with him - It is not entirely clear whether they were sincere or self-congratulatory... But they all failed. Nicolas felt only coldness from his mother, and once, when he came to visit her, Brigitte sent the boy to his father! The reason? Well, she was having a social dinner, and she obviously had no time to spend with her son... After that, the gulf between them became insurmountable.
Perhaps decades later, something clicked in the actress' mind - in her memoirs, she wrote:
"My baby is now just over 20 years old and I am very proud and in love with him. He is my light and my support..."
It could have been an attempt at reconciliation, but the words and actions that Bardot had committed earlier had put an end to her and Nicolas' relationship forever. Now grown up and handsome guy himself felt nothing for the mother, to whom he was so attracted once....
The bridges are burned
Nicolas grew up a handsome and very talented lad: he learnt the piano, composed songs, worked as a a Pierre Cardin model…
Today he has devoted himself to technology - a cause he is genuinely passionate about. He has little contact with his mother - he didn't even invite her to his own wedding! And while people might say it's an ignorant gesture on his part, dedicated family members can safely say: it's his full right.
By the way: Nicolas's wife looks a lot like his own mother... Perhaps a coincidence, but an extremely curious one. The son of a French film star has long been a father himself! He leads a quiet and modest life, trying to avoid intrusive journalists.
Once, when he was interviewed about his relationship with his mother, the man confessed:
"She loves her kitties, not people. I love my loved ones..."